Why Coaching is Important for You and Your Business

Coaching is important for business leaders

Why Coaching is Important for You and Your Business

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I sometimes get asked “Why is Coaching important for me and my Business?”

I coach Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs and for many of my clients ‘they’ are the business. Thus, the performance of their business is directly proportional to their personal performance.

It can often be the case that if the Business Leader is having a bad day – then so does the business.

So, you may ask yourself “Why do I need Business Coaching?”

In this blog I’ll introduce you to how coaching could help you to create more success for you and your business by helping you develop three key areas:

  • Confidence
  • Resourcefulness
  • Stress Management

So, let’s jump right in!

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Confidence

It can be surprising to some that many Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs struggle with confidence. Well, not all leaders are extroverts, outgoing and confident.

In-fact in Bonnie Monych’s article on the Insperity website, she reveals “The Surprising Reasons Why Introverts Make Exceptional Leaders”

Being self-confident is trusting yourself and trusting in your abilities. Here are some examples of how coaching could help you to build your self-confidence:

1. Improving Presentation Skills

Most leaders are not trained speakers and are not used to speaking to a room full of people. For many, presenting to people can create anxiety and stress. Presenting whilst anxious can affect how well you communicate with the audience and can reduce the impact of your presentation. Your coach could help you to practice different presentation techniques and prepare for your up and coming presentation so that you become more confident at presenting.

2. Increasing Self-awareness

Having more clarity on how we see ourselves can help us to become more confident: Capturing our thoughts and questioning them can help reveal and change thought patterns that do not support us. Looking at ourselves from a different perspective can also help us to learn more about ourselves and apply that learning to improve how we communicate with other people. One of the aims of coaching is to help people create more awareness.

3. Creating Better Relationships

As the saying goes “People Buy from People”. Learning how to nurture customer relationships to build rapport and trust is key to ensuring long lasting, loyal customers. Coaching can help you to become more confident in creating better relationships with your customers, your staff, your suppliers, and your business partners.

4. Leveraging Your Existing Strengths

We all have strengths. Many people don’t know what their strengths are – in-fact it can be other people that notice their strengths first. Your coach can help you to identify your strengths and help you to learn how to utilize them more effectively so that you can make a bigger impact in your Business and Life.

Resourcefulness

The dictionary describes resourcefulness as “the ability to deal skillfully and promptly with new situations, difficulties, etc.”. Resourcefulness is a key differentiator between a good leader and a great leader. The ability to think clearly and act skillfully, can boost your personal performance as well as the performance of the business.

Being more resourceful can also help you to break through barriers that have been holding you back.

Here are ways that Coaching could help you to become more Resourceful:

1. Decision Making

Your coach can help you to break down the process of decision making and improve your evaluation of the options available. This can help improve decision making and can help build resourcefulness.

2. Creating Clarity with Goals and Actions

Your coach can help you to create more clarity with your goals, by helping you to define your goals with clear action steps. The practice of goal setting can also improve resourcefulness.

3. Developing a Clear Strategy

Every business needs a strategy. It’s difficult to get where you want to get to in Business without one. If your coach helps you to improve decision making and goal setting – then these two skills will help you to define a clear strategy.

4. Improving Productivity

Are you working too hard? Many Business Leaders do. Working too hard is counter-productive. It can create fatigue which in-turn and can affect decision making. Your coach will be able to help you identify the most important tasks that you should work on and brain-storm ways to help you to use your time more effectively. This can help you to be more resourceful.

Stress Management

High levels of stress can show up in different ways for different people. For example: Some people lose their temper, some withdraw themselves and some make bad decisions. One thing is for sure high stress can impact negatively on personal performance as well as the performance of the business.

The ability to manage stress will serve you well as most Business Leaders will experience highly stressful situations from time to time.

Coaching can help you manage stress more effectively in the following ways:

1. Identifying Stress ‘Triggers’

Coaching can help you to identify the ‘triggers’ that can cause you to feel high stress. Being more aware of your stress triggers is one of the first steps to help with stress management.

2. Step Back From The ‘Drama’

My clients comment that sometimes they arrive at a coaching session, stressed and overwhelmed about a ‘calamity’ that’s going on with their business or in their life – but they leave the session with energy – feeling refreshed. Coaching sessions give you an opportunity to step back from the ‘drama’ which means you’ll be able to look at it from a different perspective; feel less stress and leave the sessions feeling more resourceful.

3. Stress Management Techniques

Coaching can help you to explore stress management techniques and practice using them so that you’ll be better equipped to handle stressful situations in the future.

Feel free to download my FREE eBook “The Stress Management Guide for Business Leaders”. This guide will introduce you to….

‘The 7 Steps to a healthier, happier business-life’ which will help you boost your well-being.

You’ll learn strategies to help you to manage high stress so that you’ll feel more resourceful and confident to run your business and manage stressful situations in the future.

Conclusion

In this blog we’ve learned how Coaching can help Business Leaders to develop Self-Confidence, Resourcefulness and Manage Stress.

The combination of these three areas can help the Business Leader to improve their performance as well as the performance of their Business.

Being more self-confident, resourceful, and having the ability to manage stress can improve leadership in many ways, including:

  • Communicating more effectively
  • Creating better relationships
  • Leveraging your strengths
  • Becoming a better decision maker
  • Creating clarity in your Strategy, Goals, and Actions
  • Improving personal productivity
  • Being better equipped to handle difficult situations that may show up

I believe that mastering these three areas makes the difference between a good leader and a great leader.

Hopefully, you can see the importance of Coaching and how it could help you to create more success in your Business and Life.

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The 4 Mindset Secrets of a Successful Entrepreneur

The 4 Mindset Secrets of a Successful Entrepreneur

The 4 Mindset Secrets of a Successful Entrepreneur

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I’ve been feeling a bit nostalgic lately and a few weeks back I tried to look up details of the first company I worked for: U-Microcomputers Ltd, to see what I could find.

I was amazed to find that the founder and Managing Director of ‘U-Micro’ – Bill Unsworth had written an autobiography!

It took a bit of tracking down, but I managed to buy a copy: “My Life – Scientist & Entrepreneur”.

Bill was a pioneer of the introduction of Microcomputers (1978) and the Internet (1994) into the UK.

For those of you that remember the early 80’s this was an exciting time for Microcomputer development in the UK – you may remember the Sinclair Spectrum, BBC Micro or the Acorn Computer?

I worked for Bill from 1987-1989 as a technician.

U-Micro designed and manufactured computer systems such as the ‘U-Man Series 1000’ used in University Chemistry laboratories. They also manufactured interface cards for the Apple I and II and were an IBM reseller.

Mindset Secrets

I looked forward to reading Bill’s book. I’ve read lots of books about entrepreneurs such as Elon Musk, Larry Page, Sergey Brin, and Richard Branson. I thought it would be fascinating to read about an entrepreneur ‘closer to home’ and compare their stories.

When I read books about entrepreneurs, I’m always keen to understand the challenges that they faced, their successes, their failures and most importantly to me – their mindset.

I’ve found it helpful in my businesses to see how successful business owners deal with failure and create success. 

Bill’s book did not disappoint! Without going into the details of Bill’s story, I want to share four of the ‘secrets’ that I discovered in Bill’s book that he shares with the more famous entrepreneurs that I just mentioned.

Successful Entrepreneurs

Secret #1: Learning from Mistakes

The first secret I discovered is that it is critical to learn from your mistakes. I liked the way that Bill noted ‘Life Lessons’ and ‘Business Lessons’ as he travelled through his life. When he described a mistake in his book, he referred to it as “another lesson learned”. It seems many entrepreneurs note down or make a point of remembering mistakes and failures that they’ve experienced. The key is to learn from these mistakes and not repeat them!

One way to do this is either to develop a particularly good memory, or to write it down!

If it’s a mistake you’ve made in life, then keeping a journal and writing about your mistake will help you to commit that experience to memory. This will help you avoid repeating the mistake in the future.

If the mistake is in your business, for example – a mistake in a process, then this is where SOPs – (Standard Operating Procedures) could help. The process is documented in a step by step approach. Should you encounter mistakes in the process, you can amend the steps. This will also ensure that should other people in your business use the same process – they won’t repeat the mistakes that you experienced.

You will probably make a lot of mistakes in Business and Life. It’s just part of your journey. But the journey is smoother when you learn from your mistakes! As the saying goes: “You must live and learn!”.

Secret #2: Pick Yourself Up When You Fall

The Entrepreneurs that I’ve read about have all experienced business failures – some of them huge failures such as the business collapsing. It was clear that Bill experienced setbacks and disappointments in his personal life and business life. His ability to pick himself up after experiencing a these ‘failures’ was another thing Bill has in common with other entrepreneurs. Entrepreneurs like Bill self-motivate themselves to see past the failures. They ‘dust themselves off’ and carry on!

Talking from experience, this is easier said than done!

However, I share four strategies on how to do this in my recent blog: How to Deal With Failure and Disappointment in Business. 

Secret #3: Never Give Up

I didn’t know Bill’s story before reading the book. However, after reading it I was amazed how many setbacks and disappointments Bill had! I think many people would have given up. However, he describes a quiet determination to succeed. It was clear Bill’s drive to succeed was strong!

Developing determination can be difficult for some. I read an article recently, written by Lilia Manibo from AnthroDesk which provides 10 ways to help develop determination.

One of my favourites from Lilia’s article is: “Decide to be Determined”:

“A decision to be determined is where you should start. That decision gives you a direction. It leads you to where you should be moving even if there are challenges along the way. When you make a decision, this should be done with conviction, both in smooth and hard times.”

CLICK HERE to read Lilia’s full article.

Secret #4: It May Be a Long and Winding Road to Success

The final secret for me that I took away from the book was that the path to success may be a long and winding road. It was clear that Bill certainly achieved a LOT of success – but his journey was not straight forward!

On your own journey to success, you may need to take breaks along the way. You may need to change direction and your journey may take longer than you first thought!

If you can apply the knowledge of this secret and of course the previous three, this will go a long way to move you towards success in whatever endeavors you are working towards!

Reading about Entrepreneurs is a great way to experience the long and winding road to their successes. I’ve yet to read a book about an entrepreneur who was an overnight success. Sometimes it may seem that way but their ‘back story’ usually provides a long list of mistakes, failures, delays, and changes of direction well BEFORE they achieve success.

Conclusion

I thoroughly enjoyed my time at U-Micro. I learnt a lot and had fun! Reading that part of the book brought back some good memories for me.

The biggest takeaway from Bill’s book for me was that we are all on our own journey in life and business. You don’t have to be a famous entrepreneur to experience ‘ups’ and ‘downs’ in life and business.

However, I believe that you do have to decide how you’re going to react and respond to the ‘failures’ that you may experience, if you want to move forward to success – just like Bill.

The perceived ‘failures’ you see can actually be ‘steppingstones’ to your success, as long as you apply the four secrets Bill and the other entrepreneurs demonstrated:

  • Secret #1: Learning from Mistakes
  • Secret #2: Pick Yourself Up When You Fall
  • Secret #3: Never Give Up
  • Secret #4: It May Be a Long and Winding Road to Success

Bill bounced back many times from ‘failures’. I believe it was his mindset that ensured his success – just like the other entrepreneurs.

I think we can all learn a lot from Bill’s story!

Thanks for sharing it Bill!…Oh and thank you for giving me my first job!

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How to Keep Customers When Things go Wrong

How to Keep Customers When Things go Wrong

Customer loyalty is critical when running a business…

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As the saying goes it costs more to find new customers than it does to look after your existing customers.

Your existing customers have invested in you and your business because they BELIEVE that you can offer them the right solution.

Being rewarded with their belief is a wonderful thing. They could have easily ordered from one of your competitors. This belief is the first step in the customer trusting you.

However, this is just the first step…

It’s so important to build more trust with your customer in order to have loyal customers.

Keeping in regular contact with your customer is an obvious step.

However, this step is sometimes overlooked – especially when things go wrong.

How to Keep Customers When Things go Wrong

If you’re supplying complex products or solutions to your customers, at some stage things may go wrong, such as:

  • Product quality issues
  • Service delivery issues
  • System failure
  • Late delivery
  • Administration errors

However, it’s at this time that you MUST look after your customer.

You must do all you can to resolve the problem.

In the past I had to deal with product supply issues to my customers where the supply chain was complex. There were occasions when I could not fix the problem immediately.

I had done all I could to investigate the problem and find ‘workarounds’ and alternative solutions. But the customer was not happy. What should I do?

In my experience updating the customer regularly and being honest is one of the best ways forward.

Phoning the customer regularly (and sometimes EVERY DAY), to update them is key – even if there is no immediate solution in sight – the fact that they KNOW you are working on the problem is important.

The customer may still be upset, but if you ‘step up’ and take control of the situation by searching for solutions; update the customer regularly and be honest – this will go a long way to build customer trust in the future.

I’ve been on the brink of losing a customer in the past – but these actions saved me. It’s not pleasant to see your customer upset, but this is your time to prove that they were right in believing you when they placed their first order.

Conclusion

Customers do remember when things go wrong – but they also remember when you turnaround these problems and look after them.

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Top 9 ways that Coaching helps Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs

Top 9 ways that Coaching helps Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs

Coaching for Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs

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Coaching…Coaching…Coaching

These days the word ‘Coaching’ is used in virtually every market, and this word is sometimes overused!

So, what is coaching and how can coaching help Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs?

In this article I’m going to provide an introduction into coaching.

I’ll walk you through the top 9 ways that Coaching helps Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs.

I’ll also share some recommendations on how to select a coach.

Let’s get started!

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What is Coaching for Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs?

There are many different forms of coaching available: Life Coaching, Business Coaching, Executive Coaching, Sports Coaching, Wellbeing Coaching…and many more!

In general terms Coaching is a solution for growing and developing people.

It’s a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires the coaching client to develop their personal and professional potential. It facilitates their growth.

Coaching for Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs can help them to develop their own performance. It is also used to help them develop the performance of their business.

Coaching is not mentoring. A Mentor is someone with a specific set of skills or knowledge that passes this information on to their client.

Sir John Whitmore sums up coaching, succinctly:

“Coaching is unlocking a person’s potential to maximise their own performance. It is helping them to learn rather than teaching them.”

Sir John Whitmore, in Coaching for Performance

It can be tough at the top!

Being a Business Leader and Entrepreneur can be exciting and incredibly rewarding. However, it can also be ‘lonely at the top’. Many leaders don’t have anyone they can turn to for support. They are expected to have all the answers and always know the next step to take with their business.

Many leaders are also under intense pressure and experience high levels of stress.

Coaching is helping the coaching client to think differently. For the purpose of this article we will assume that the coaching client is a Business Leader or an Entrepreneur.

It’s about leveraging their strengths to overcome ‘blind-spots’; helping them to create a new perspective on the situations they see in their Business or Life.

Coaching is helping the coaching client learn about their strengths and how to better apply them. It helps the client learn about their behaviours. Coaching helps them to create new insights, new perspectives, and new actions to move forward.

It’s about taking ‘high-performers’ and helping them to improve their performance.

Top 9 ways that Coaching helps Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs

If you’re considering coaching, how could it help you? 

Here are 9 ways that my clients have commented that coaching has helped them:

Time to Think

It’s rare in business today to have time to think without any interruptions. In the coaching sessions there’s no phone to answer and no emails to respond to. This means you’ll have time to clear your head, see your priorities clearly and think about what you want for you and your business.

Time to Think

Manage Stress

My clients often comment that they arrive at the coaching sessions, stressed, and overwhelmed about a ‘calamity’ that’s going on with their business or in their life – but they leave the sessions with energy – feeling refreshed.

The coaching sessions give you an opportunity to step back from the ‘drama’ which means you’ll be able to look at it from a different perspective; feel less stress and leave the sessions feeling more resourceful.

Stress Management

Confidential conversations

Many of my clients don’t have anyone that they can talk to confidentially about the challenges that they face in their business or the ideas they have for the future.

Unless you’re working with an ‘Internal Coach’ employed by the business, Coaches are typically independent to your business – which can be a bonus, as the coach can help provide a different perspective on your situation.

In either case the ‘Coaching Programme’ is usually covered by a coaching agreement which includes a confidentiality clause. In my case, confidentiality underpins everything I do. I also subscribe to the International Coach Federation (ICF) Code of Ethics.

Extracting Your Ideas

One of my clients mentioned that one of the main benefits of coaching was the opportunity to extract all the ideas in his head. Which meant that he could ‘see’ them and then figure out what to do with them!

Problem Solving

The coaching sessions are often used to help resolve a business or life-related problem.

The coach will help you to explore problems that you face and look for options to resolve them. Coaching helps you to become more resourceful. This means you’ll better equipped to handle other problems that may show up in the future.

Eliminating Limiting Beliefs

Many business leaders and Entrepreneurs (at times) struggle with limiting assumptions and limiting beliefs that prevent them from making decisions; moving forward and resolving the challenges that they face. For example, some leaders develop a limiting belief pattern where they say to themselves “I always mess this up” or “I just can’t do it” or “I’ll never make it in business”.

Limiting beliefs restrict the actions that you are prepared to take, which in turn affects the results you’ll get. The limited results that you see re-enforce the limiting belief and then the cycle repeats again and again.

The coaching sessions can help you to break-free of this cycle by challenging your limiting assumptions and limiting beliefs so that you can make more informed choices and decisions and break-through what’s been holding you back in your business and life.

Developing Strategy & Direction

The coaching sessions can be used to help you to create a strategy and direction for you and your business.

With your coach you’ll be able to focus on the desired outcomes you want for your business and you’ll ‘brain-storm’ solutions to achieve them.

The coach will help you to clarify goals and actions so that you’ll be able to create and implement a strategy to take you in the direction that you want to go.

Your Sounding Board

The Coach is on your side. Being your ‘sounding board’ means that the coach will ‘test’ and challenge your ideas and any limiting beliefs that show up! The coach is like your ‘ideas’ sparring partner!

Sounding Board

Developing Leadership

This last one sums up all the previous ways that coaching can help you and brings us back to one of the key-aims of coaching that I described earlier:

“Coaching is a solution for growing and developing people.”

In the case of the Business Leader and Entrepreneur, coaching helps them develop their Leadership – not just in their Business, but Leadership in their Life as well. Which is why coaching is so important for Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs.

In my coaching practice, I focus on helping Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs develop their Leadership by helping them to become more resourceful, confident, and capable leaders.

This ultimately helps them to create more success in their Business and Life.

Leadership

Should you try coaching?

Well, only you can answer that question! Hopefully this article has answered the questions you had and has given you a clearer understanding of what coaching is.

Each of my clients tends to have something unique about what brings them to coaching – a specific result that they want to achieve. However, one thing that is common with all my clients is their desire for change.

Most have hit a ‘threshold’, where they’ve ‘had enough’ about their situation or something that’s going on with their business or life.

If coaching is something you would like to try, I suggest searching for a few coaches initially, and check-out their profile, background, accreditations, testimonials and perhaps most importantly of all – ask yourself “Does this coach resonate with me?”.

Conclusion

So, in summary we have learned that one of the core-aims of coaching is to help people to grow and develop.

We’ve learnt that Coaching is different to Mentoring.

I’ve shared 9 ways that coaching can help Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs:

  • Time to Think
  • Managing Stress
  • Confidential Conversations
  • Extracting Your Ideas
  • Problem Solving
  • Eliminating Limiting Beliefs
  • Developing Strategy & Direction
  • Your Sounding Board
  • Developing Leadership

And I’ve also provided some recommendations on how to select a coach.

One thing I want to leave you with is that the coaching experience is unique for each coaching client. Some of my Clients comment on other ways in which coaching helps them.

The success of the coaching sessions is not just dependent on the coach – it is just as dependent on the client, as what the client gets out of coaching session, is really down to what they put in!

Coaching can also be an uncomfortable experience for some, as it often requires them to go out of their comfort zone for them to grow and develop.

But if the coaching client is committed to the coaching process, the rewards can be unlimited!

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How to deal with failure and disappointment in business

failure and disappointment

How to Deal with Failure and Disappointment in Business

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Why do I always screw-up? Why does it never go right for me? I’m never going to succeed!

That’s a depressing start to a blog! But I remember having these thoughts many years ago.

At times I struggled with how to deal with failure and disappointment in business.

Failure – even the mention of this word back then used to bring a ‘sinking’ feeling in my stomach as I used to remind myself of previous times I screwed-up. For many in business, experiencing failure creates negative emotions.

In this blog we’re going to explore failure and disappointment in business; what happens when we experience disappointment and what we can do to avoid the negative feelings associated with failure and disappointment that many in business struggle with.

What is failure?

Well, I think we all know failure, but when researching for this blog, I looked it up on Wikipedia to see what it said:

“Failure is the state or condition of not meeting a desirable or intended objective and may be viewed as the opposite of success.”

So pretty obvious, but it focuses on the original intention to succeed – and an expectation for a specific result, that doesn’t happen. 

 

What is disappointment?

Wikipedia states: “Disappointment is the feeling of dissatisfaction that follows the failure of expectations or hopes to manifest. Similar to regret, it differs in that a person who feels regret focuses primarily on the personal choices that contributed to a poor outcome, while a person feeling disappointment focuses on the outcome itself. It is a source of psychological stress.”

It refers to a ‘feeling’ that follows the failure of expectations and it touches on disappointment being one of many causes of stress.

 

What happens when we get disappointed?

Disappointment is a powerful emotion, in-fact it’s one of the tougher emotions we experience. Disappointment hurts!

People react to the emotion of disappointment in different ways – some get angry; some get sad; some beat themselves up and some blame other people.

Let’s face it – in business there are many opportunities to fail and thus many opportunities to experience disappointment. From my personal experience in business and that of my coaching clients we all have experience of failure and disappointment. 

Here are some examples of typical business ‘failures’ can create disappointment:

    • Not winning a business opportunity
    • Losing a customer
    • Losing a valued member of staff
    • Messing up a presentation or a sales pitch
    • Making a mistake…just screwing up!

In this blog we’re going to discover how to respond to the feeling of disappointment in different ways – more empowering ways.

 

What can we do to overcome disappointment in business?

Better Out Than In!

As we discovered earlier there could be many reasons in business why we could be feeling disappointed. If for example you’ve made a mistake – be honest and apologise for it. You’ll gain more respect with honesty than anything else.

Perhaps you’re disappointed about something that someone else screwed up, don’t hide it – talk about it – be curious to find out what happened. How could you help that person improve in the future?

If there’s no-one you can talk with, then write about your disappointment. Perhaps you need to vent about it to get it out?! If you do then write down your frustrations – by writing this on paper, you can ‘say’ everything you want to – once you’ve done that – destroy it.

Each of these are great ways to ‘extract’ the disappointment.

As the saying goes “Better out than in!”.

What Can You Learn?

So, in the previous section we discovered that talking about the failure and disappointment can help to extract the negative emotion. Be mindful of how long you focus on the ‘problem’ though. When we focus our time on a problem, it tends to get bigger in our minds.

Focusing more time and energy on what you can learn about the perceived failure will help point you in the right direction so you can move on.

As Henry Ford once said, “The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing.”

With every mistake I’ve made in business (and I’ve made a few!) I’ve learned something. I moved forward trying to not repeat those mistakes. I tend to make new ones now!

…But seriously, I think Business and Life is about making mistakes, learning from them, not repeating them and to keep moving forward.

So, next time you experience a failure, try asking yourself these questions:

    • What can I learn from this situation to help me?
    • What could I do differently next time?
    • How will this situation serve me?
    • How could I use this situation to help others?

Learn from People That Fail the Most

I love reading biographies and auto-biographies about successful business leaders. Every holiday, I take a book with me to read. Last time was a book about Elon Musk.

One thing I’ve learned from reading these books is that the people that succeed in business the most, tend to have had huge failures – and lots of them.

These books are full of insights and learning opportunities for us. You get to learn about their experiences; their ‘failures’ and their successes. But I think perhaps most importantly you get you learn about their mindset – how they keep going forward despite the mistakes and failures.

My favourite reads so far have been about Richard Branson, Steve Jobs and Elon Musk. But there are so many leaders to read about.

So, why not search for a book about a business leader who inspires you?

Create New Insights

Learning from other business leaders by reading books about them is a great way to create new insights. Another way is to read quotes. I’ve got to admit I’m a big fan of quotes – I try to read one each day. I find they create so much inspiration for me.

Here are some of my favourite quotes about failure:

"I have not failed 10,000 times. I have not failed once. I have succeeded in proving that those 10,000 ways will not work. When I have eliminated the ways that will not work, I will find the way that will work."

Thomas Edison

"You can't control the events of your life, but you can control what they mean to you."

Anthony Robbins

"It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed."

Theodore Roosevelt

Conclusion

So, what have we learned?

We’ve learnt more about what failure and disappointment is and how disappointment can be a source of stress.

We’ve learnt that people can react to failure and disappointment in dis-empowering ways including anger, sadness and beating themselves up.

I shared four ways to help transform the way we deal with failure and overcome disappointment:

  • Getting rid of the disappointment as quickly as possible. We discovered ways of how to do just that.
  • Learning from failure is the key to not really failing at all.
  • Learn from business leaders that succeed the most as they tend to fail the most.
  • Creating new insights for yourself by reading quotes that other people have written about failure can help to shift how you perceive failure.

In summary, realising that failure is part of business and life has been key for me. Understanding that sometimes things just don’t go our way helps.

Appreciating that you may not be able to control the events (‘failures’) that you experience, but you do have control of how you think about them; what you do about them and what they ultimately mean to you, will help you move forward.

And finally, discovering that if you look close enough at the perceived ‘failures’ you see, you’ll find the seeds of success and that is the sure way to move towards that.

So, let me ask you a question:

What’s been your biggest ‘failure’ in business?

Oh, and one more:

What can you learn from it?

So, don’t let the perceived ‘failures’ you see be your downfall.

Business ‘Failures’ are sometimes a topic for discussion during coaching sessions with my clients. If you would like to learn how coaching can help  – CLICK HERE – to read my blog article where I share the Top 9 ways Coaching helps Business Leaders and Entrepreneurs.

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